and we got yong tau hu as well...
white carrot soup...
and finally the lou sang that i bought so long time from KL,and we decided to eat that tonight...
Life is a song - sing it. Life is a game - play it. Life is a challenge - meet it. Life is a sacrifice - offer it. Life is love - enjoy it. ~生活是自己,選擇的衣裳~
The arrival of the new year marks a symbolic time for fresh starts. Many of us take it as an opportunity to set goals, contemplate decisions, and renew commitments. It's special because of the revitalized sense of hope it brings.
Before you make your New Year's resolutions for 2007, I'd like to share some thoughts about how it's never too late to start living a rich life.
The Live Rich Factor
Most people believe that if they just had more money, the things that make them unhappy would disappear and their lives would be better. The truth is that your life can be better without more money. It can be better today, but you need to make some decisions and take some actions.
You don't need me to tell you what will make you happy -- only you know that truth.
I believe each of us has the power to discover our purpose and become joyful in the process of journeying toward that purpose. It's not easy, however. Nothing important and meaningful ever is.
What you need to do is create what I call the "Live Rich Factor" in your life. I call it this because those who find the purpose that leads them to joy are truly the luckiest people in the world, because they're living richly.
There are five basic principles involved in creating your Live Rich Factor:
Principle 1: Give Yourself a Break
We all tell ourselves the story of the one that got away. You can't move forward if you spend time focusing on what you shoulda-woulda-coulda done in 2006 or before. It's over, and its time to move on. The fastest way I know to do this is to write all of your regrets down on paper.
Make a list of all your personal and financial if-onlys. For example, "If only I had saved more money. If only I hadn't quit that job. If only I hadn't taken the job I have." You get the idea.
After reading the list aloud to yourself, get rid of it. Let it all go by literally burning the list (safely). Now you're ready for a fresh start in 2007 -- a new beginning.
Principle 2: Get Connected with Your Truth
The hardest thing to do is be honest with yourself. Asking yourself some key questions will lead you to some amazing discoveries, and possibly motivate you to do what it takes to create the life you envision for yourself.
I suggest writing your (honest) answers to the following questions in a new journal for the new year:
You'll find that by putting your answers down on paper, they'll become clear more quickly and the actions you need to take more obvious and easier to initiate.
Principle 3: Stop Judging Yourself
Be nicer to yourself in 2007. Many people talk to themselves in a way they would never accept from a stranger, friend, or loved one. If this describes you, try stopping the negative conversations you have with yourself immediately.
For one week, simply commit to saying "stop it" when you think a negative thought about yourself. If you're in the habit of saying negative things to yourself, you'll find this is one of the most difficult exercises you'll ever do. Carry a notepad with you and make a mark each time you catch yourself thinking negatively. You'll find that as the days go by, your negative thinking can quickly be reduced.
Principle 4: Stop Judging Others
It's hard to be joyful when you're always judging others. In fact, it's close to impossible. Judging others creates a huge amount of stress in our lives. It affects our marriages and our relationships with our kids as well as the way we relate to friends, co-workers, and society in general.
We're not here to judge one another.
The next time you find yourself upset at someone or some situation, catch yourself and ask, "Are you judging?" Judging others is often an unconscious habit. But it's a habit that can be changed the moment you decide to stop doing it.
Principle 5 : Pursue Fun with a Vengeance
It's OK to pursue fun. It's what children do. My greatest joy these days is the simple pleasure of playing with my three-year-old son, Jack.
This holiday season with Jack taught me the simple power of pursuing fun -- again and again. What was fun for Jack this Christmas? It turns out it wasn't the Big Wheel that my wife, Michelle, and I stayed up so late building on Christmas Eve. And it wasn't the Star Wars Lego toy (although he was pretty excited about that).
Instead, what Jack found the most fun was a new game I made up to keep him entertained. The game was called Geronimo -- and it involved Jack jumping from the bed onto a stack of pillows yelling "Geronimo!" This silly little game ended up bringing us both hours of fun. The price of the game: nothing. The fun: priceless. And the laughs? Endless.
Why do we stop pursing fun as we get older? Fun shouldn't be squeezed into a few weeks of vacation each year. And it shouldn't be squeezed into the last chapter of your life when you "get to" retire. Fun deserves to be a part of your life now -- in 2007.
But fun doesn't just happen. You have to make it a priority in your life or it'll go missing. Life's too short to not have it.
So here's to a fun, happy, and healthy New Year. Cheers!
终于费尽九牛二虎之力把所有的东西都搬到车站了,那里还蛮冷清的,幸好除了我们还有一个日本女孩同行,巴士也很准时到,我们就这样一路睡到机场,过后去check in才发现行李超重,当然啦,买这么多,不超重还真的不可能,以前在马来西亚超重一点都不用补钱的,没想到搭了这么多次的飞机我的第一次超重罚款竟然给了台北机场,check in 了后,就在机场随处逛逛,但是机场的东西真的很贵,所以怎样都买不下手,只好眼看手不动咯。上了飞机后我们就去会周公了,因为实在太累了,这样就一直睡到我们降临亚庇国际机场,我的这段自助旅行也在这里画上美丽的休止符。。。。。。
后记:
这是第一次自己从头到尾策划和没有家人陪伴的旅程,严格上来说这是我人生的第一次背包游,所以希望它是一个好的开始,也为以后的旅程打下一枚强心针,其实我们很常都会有很多顾虑,导致我们不敢踏出那一步,不敢去尝试,但是当你真正很勇敢地踏出去后,你会发现其实很多事情都没有你想象中那么困难,在旅途上遇到的种种都能帮你成长,让你有机会去看看这个世界有多大,旷阔你的视野,不管你在路上遇到好的坏的,那都是一种体验,一种体会,不用太强求完美,也不用太计较得失。。。。。
朋友,如果你还犹疑不决,那就请你下定决心,找个你想要去的地方去看看,凡事都不是你想象中那么难,只是看你愿不愿意去尝试而已,祝福你们也祝福我自己,我们一起加油!
最后,要感谢正在读着这篇文字的你,谢谢你花了你宝贵的时间来读我的游记,虽然从头到尾我都不觉得我写得好,但是我毕竟还是把它完成了,这也是对我这次的背包游作了一个完美的交代,它会是一个好的开始,也愿来临的将来我会有更多的机会去体验。
~~ 人生是一场漫长的自助旅行,而自己就是最佳的导游!快乐和哀愁只是一种很简单的心情,当你体会到后,就会明白这只是一种过程 ~~
因为要去的地方都已经去的七七八八了,所以今天就打算悠哉一点,睡到自然醒,睡醒后就跑去光南大批发那里找找看有没有便宜的cd买,结果还是觉得有点贵,所以就打消了扫货的念头,反而芬还买了比较便宜的vcd回来收藏。过后我们就到台北车站准备搭捷运到忠孝敦化顶好商圈那里准备吃麻辣火锅,来了台湾这么多天,一直都没有真正花钱坐下来吃一餐好的,所以麻辣火锅肯定是不能放过的,之前问了lily的朋友,想知道哪里的比较好吃,但是临去的前一晚在诚品那里看到一本美食杂志的专题介绍,选了一间看起来很不错的,所以就决定今天一定要来试试看。
到了顶好商圈,因为杂志上没有详细列明火锅店的地址,所以我们只好问问看附近的商店,看看他们知不知道,问了好几间他们都不知道,中途还问了一位uncle,没想到他不知道还不要紧,还很八的问我们从哪里来啦,来这里做什么啦,敷衍了几句后我们就继续到7-eleven那里问问看,希望那位年轻的店员可以告诉我们,她一开始听到我们问“享记”火锅店在哪里也摸不着头脑的,想了一下,终于被她想起那间店应该是叫“亨记”,原来是我们摆了一个大乌龙,竟然把“亨”看成“享”,那时候真的是很paiseh,想撞墙,亏我还读了这么多年的华语,这样的错也能犯,难怪大家都不知道啦。。。知道了我们要去那家店,她就很清楚地把方向指给我们看,还告诉我们沿路上的指标,应该怎么跑,所以跟她道谢后我们也很快地找到了那间餐厅。
去到后看到里面还蛮多人的,感觉应该会不错吧,吃火锅的时间有限定2个小时的,后来waitress就带我们到楼下那里,然后告诉我们要怎样用那些盘子,点了一个鸳鸯汤底(清汤和麻辣---小辣)。我们就开始去拿食物了,这里的食材还蛮多的,还有店里推介的红槽排骨和不老肉,不老肉顾名思义就是指你把肉放进汤里煮多久都不会老,这是老板到四川学麻辣汤底的时候那个师傅看到老板很用心学,所以也把不老肉的秘诀也传授给他,因为材料有点多的关系,我们有很想每样都试,所以就每样都拿一两个,好吃再回头,调味料台那里也有指示我们应该要怎样调店里独特的酱料,那种味道我到今天都还忘不了。。。很特别,有点甜,有点酸,有点咸,有点辣,真的是五味掺杂,但是又配合的恰到好处,一个字,赞!
总的来说,这一餐还蛮不错,只是我不是很喜欢麻辣的味道,总觉得它没有办法带出食物的鲜美,而且也有点受不了汤里的鸭血,真的有点不明白为什么我隔壁那桌的uncle aunt对鸭血那么情有独钟,吃完了还再加,如果他们看到我们把鸭血都捞完起来,肯定会说我们不识货吧。吃着吃着,两个小时也过去了,吃的肚子还满撑得,当然咯,要值回票价嘛(NT299加服务费10%)。
吃完后,我们就搭捷运会到西门町,想说最后一天就在那里逛逛,买了一杯青蛙下蛋奶茶来喝,去到那里我们还有幸看到许慧欣的签名会,但是人太多了,所以只能很勉强地扫到一下,过后继续在那里逛逛,听到王心凌的歌就猜到她应该也在那里有签名会,所以就跑过去看看,去到那里没有看到很多人,她就在上面帮歌迷签名,然后下面那里就有柜台在那里卖她的最新专辑,买了就可以上台签名,我去到的时候已经没有很多人上台了,如果我要签,还真的容易过借火,但是本人兴趣不大,所以就站在那里看看,过后DJ就请她站在台前给歌迷拍照,这次我和她的距离只有1m而已,所以也很顺便地拍了几张照片,然后就继续去找吃,因为芬对阿宗面线念念不忘,所以我们就跑去打包,还买了盐水鸡回hostel吃。这次可能是假日的关系,所以终于看到面线店前的人龙,大家就站在那里你一碗我一碗的吃。
回到hostel休息了一会儿就到客厅参加了lily为我们准备的大吃会--- new year dinner party,全部都是她一手包办,然后邀请大家来尝,还是免费的哦,感觉上跟很多不同国籍的朋友在同一个屋檐下吃吃喝喝还蛮新鲜好玩的,大家在那里聊聊天,做一下国际文化交流也不错。。。。。就这样,聊到差不多1点就上去收拾东西了,因为要回家了。。。。。。